BUSINESS / ORGANIZATION:
MATURE ENOUGH (M.E.)MIAMI, Florida
ABOUT THE BUSINESS / ORGANIZATION:Judith Dials is a wife, mother, author, speaker, and relationship coach who specializes in teaching ladies how to get the man of their dreams, be done with broken relationships, and obtain a life of pure inner happiness. She is the Executive Director of Mature Enough (M.E.), an organization that teaches ladies how to love oneself ENOUGH, in turn will receive the benefits of self-love, which is a life of pure inner happiness and better relationships.
“I believe everyone has love for themselves. However, you'd be surprised how many ladies don't realize that they aren't loving themselves enough. A lack of self-love can be seen in so many areas of our lives. Such as loving others more than we love ourselves, being in constant broken relationships, allowing ourselves to be in constant neglect, pain, and being used by our significant other. We justify self-love with the words, ‘I love him'...as if to say our love for him is more important than the love we have for ourselves. I've realized that because of our busy lives, our upbringings, and what society and the media has taught us, there are many ways that we are not loving ourselves ENOUGH, which in turn affects our happiness and our relationships. (M.E.) assists ladies with being done with broken relationships.” - Judith Dials
THE STORY:M.E. was birthed from my own personal struggles with low self-esteem, insecurities, being too attached in relationships, seeking acceptance from my partner, and not being mentally and emotionally in control of myself. These things combined made for a poor marriage in the beginning of my marriage. It affected my relationship so much that I lost myself, found myself broken, and nearly divorced. So, at that point I began a search for happiness. Then, I realized that although I was loving myself...I wasn't loving myself enough. I allowed myself to be used and abused. I allowed myself to be disrespected. I allowed myself to be financially, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually broke. I realized at some point that if ever I'm not happy in this life, I couldn't blame my husband, my job, my family, my friends, nothing! I realized that I had to be fully responsible for the things that I desire in this world. That I am not a victim. When I realized who I am, what God placed me here to do in this world, and changing the negative thoughts I acquired about myself...my life changed immensely. Self-love goes so deep -- it's your whole life! It changed me. It changed my marriage. It changed my life and I was purposed to teach it to other ladies!
ACCOMPLISHMENTS / ACCOLADES / AWARDS:I'm grateful for the many ladies that God blessed me to help along the way. However, there are two ladies that I'll never forget. Though awards and recognitions are great...they'll never make me feel as good as this. One of the ladies I coached said that there was no hope for her marriage as she and her husband hadn't touched each other in 10 years. They lived as roommates. She asked if she should end the relationship. I coached her on a few things to do with her husband - and herself - to bring life back into the relationship. A couple of months, later she wrote me back and told me that after 10 years of not being intimate or relationally involved with her husband...her marriage changed immensely because of our coaching. She said they communicate, they make love, they go out! That right there is beautiful!
Another lady sent me a message and said she attempted to commit suicide but failed. At the lowest place in her life, a friend of hers gave her my book. She said the words spoken in my book saved her life! She never felt better than she did at that moment.
These are awards within itself!!!
ADVICE:One of the best advices I could give is the scripture that says "Above all else, Love God, Love others AS you love yourself." Thus, to the ladies reading this message, when you get your man, never allow him to be your god, as he'll be the one you worship. And if he ever leaves, you'll feel your life is over because you've made him your god. Thus, love God! Secondly, love others AS you love yourself. Which means with equal measure. Not more than you love yourself because that will leave you used and abused. Not less than you love yourself because that leaves you the user and abuser. As you love yourself...with equal measure. HOWEVER, to love them as you love yourself would mean that you ought to know how to love yourself properly - so you will know how to be treated and how to treat them.
RULES/PRINCIPLES:Everything you desire in life first begins with 'ME'...yes, that means you!
CONTACT INFORMATION:YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbbUuylv0HuIdQj7kmnGqKg
07 Jul Judith Dials
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